Thursday, August 5, 2010

WOMEN- THEIR EMPOWRMENT AND SIGNIFICANCE

'Woman' - an adult human female. This is the meaning of the term Woman given in the dictionary. But, does the term 'woman' just mean an adult human female? Is its meaning limited to just this or does the term or rather the being means more than that? Ofcourse there is much more to a woman than just being 'an adult human female'. A Woman can be a Daughter, a Sister, a Mother, a Grand Mother, a Wife, a Daughter-in-law, a Friend, an Aunt, a Teacher. A woman is the person who is responsible for running a household. She can be a homemaker as well a Career woman. She can be a guide, counsellor, a mentor and an agony aunt. She essays her many roles beutifully with elan and elegance. She wears many or rather innumerable hats which perch preety on her head! Thus, the meaning of the word woman in no way is just restricted to being ' an adult human female' but, more than it.

A woman, is warm, compassonate, affectionate, humane, mawkish and patient. She is also very demure, dignified, strong, caring, considerate, loving, understanding, tolerant, soft hearted, rock-solid, sensible, level-headed, matured individual and lots of fun! A woman fulfills all her relationships with immense love. She prooundly enriches the lives of people around her by fostering warm bonds and strong rapport with the people she is associated and is great at sharing good camaraderie with everyone with her warmth and love. She can also be a tremendous support system when she is needed to be one. But, despite all her efforts, she is always dismissed, taken for granted and treated contemptuously.

When we hear the term 'Woman', the most certain terms to creep in our minds are delicate. fragile and mawkish. But, most people who nurture an orthodox and primitive ideologies and mind-sets also relate the terms 'weak' and 'inferior' with women, absolutely degrading their sex and regarding them as contemptous, which I very strongly oppose, as I am a girl child too, morphing into a woman, which is why I have chosen this topic to voice my concerns, opinions and views on it, as it is a very dear concern to me and I believe to every woman on the planet, because it is time we receive our share of love, respect and our rightful place in society and in the global community.

in the ancient age, people treated women with tremendous disdain and contempt, looked down upon them, dismissing them as worthless and useless beings and scoffed at them. Women were spoken about in a very scornful and spiteful manner by society and were not accorded their rightful place or their share of respect. All these complexities would completely drain the energy off women and make them underestimate themselves. They would constantly be surrounded by negative energies, which would eventually make them construct their iner peace and let their happiness be governed by what society spoke about them. Thus, their self-confidence, hopes, dreams, ambitions, and life in general would be shattered like a glass, which upon falling on to the ground is shattered into copious tiny bits. This demoralisation and dissuasion is encountered by most women even to this day. This phenomenon is immensely unacceptable and intolerable and disturbs me enourmously, because contrary to the world's poular notion, women were and are the superior sex and forever will be.

Most people even today do not attach crucial importance and significance to a gir child's education. They refuse to identify a girl backed with a strong and solid educational background and this one aspect of our society which I absolutely cannot relate to or tolerate, because when the matter boils down to education, there should be held no distinctions or discriminations of any sort between a boy and a girl. I am of the firm opinion that a girlchild's education is equally pivotal because she too like a boy, is a vital component of this world and can gigantically contribute to the much-needed economic development of the global community. I strongly oppose any person's views who does not encourage a girl child's education, because I immensely advocate the idea of highly educating a girl and making her capable of making a better difference to the world. Just like how a prosaic stone after being meticulously and appropriately carved, designed and polished transforms into a brilliantly shining diamond, education too, I believe shapes and polishes a raw individual and enables it to add to the shine of the world and according to me there is no offence in polishing a girl child when she has the innate and natural ability to outshine everyone.

Women today have been super successful and progressive in anything they take up nad bring to the table. We have so many admirable examples to watch and quote. Women have made their unforgettable and remarkable marks in so many innumerable fields, be it in the Entertaining Industry comprising of Modeling, Fashion, Cinema, or any other like Literature, Theatre, Astronomy, Medicine, Business, Law, Creative Arts and many diverse fields of work. Many have made benchmarks in their chosen fields. There are many eminent egxamples to quote like Sarojeeni Naidu, Nita Ambani, Oprah winfrey, Aishwatya Rai, Indira Gndhi, Kalpana Chawla,Enid Blyton and Lauren Weisberger to name a few. Its exceedingly gratigying, rewarding, fulfilling and incredibly amazing to watch women go a notch higher than men, rather than walking shoulder to shoulder with them and making marks in varied fields. There is tremendous confidence oozing in the Modern Age woman coupled with sheer grit and strong determination to excel and emerge successful in evrything they bring to the table. Women dominate varied fields of work today and are extremely successful. Some women have gone on to become really formidable forces to reckon with in their respective fields and command a certain power and enjoy a high stature. They are self made and financially successful, secure, supportive and independent (not dependent on anyone else!). They are the new bread-winners of the family which provides them with a sense of accomplishment and enriches their lives.
Women besides being so engrossed into their professional lives and emersing themselves in workk also immensely indulge themselves in social service. Apart from contributing to the economic development of the global community, they indulge in social development as well, adding a new beautiful meaning to everyone's lives. Thus women act as responsible and careful global citizens and beutifully fulfill their duties towards society.
Another reason why women are equally crucial to the world is because they are blessed with the fabulous natural gift of bringing another life into this world, which enriches their experience of being a woman and makes them want to celebrate every second of their lives for being born as a girl child and experience it in its entirety. Since women are born and blessed with this innate power which comes to them as an incredible gift, of nurturing another being within themselves, women in no way can be regarded as inferiors. Thus, women are the most strongest of all sexes. Women have immense patience and strenght to cope with and tackle any complications or predicaments which come their way, with elan and most importantly the ability and power to love in an unconditional, pure and selfless manner. Thus they possess great fortitude and are very valorous.
Thus, a girl child is truly and immensely blessed, priviledged and fortunate to be born as A GIRL CHILD and she deserves to be treated with the love, concern and respect she is meant for. It is time the world accepts this fact and discouarage the corrupt and atrociously pathetic practice of Female Infanticide and encourage a girl child's education and accord her all the priviledges she is entitled to.
I am aware that it is next to impossible to go around altering evryone's approach towards a woman and changing their perceptions towards a girl child's education, her place and position in society and all other significant aspects associated with her, but, I feel I can surely make a change by voicing my concerns over this issue and making an attempt to modify the society's outlook towards these aspects. Women Empowerment and Securing Women's Rights are some of the most important International Issues in today's age which need to be addressed on an urgent basis, but unfortunately, this does not happen.Therefore, I, as a responsible citizen and girl child is attempting to do my bit towards this and I do sincerely hope, wish and pray that someday the world will accept women as equals with open arms by shedding their narrow-mindedness and orthodox mentality and ideologies and that day will be THE DAY when the world will change for the better!

Monday, April 19, 2010

TEENAGE YEARS

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Teenage years...aren't they super-exciting??!!...Teenage tears are those in which we discover ourselves. They are the years which mould us, into the kind of people we become in the future. They are responsible for building our future, good or bad, is in our hands completely. It is whilst we are in our teenage years, that we grow through or rather experience the ups and downs and good, bad and ugly of life. It is in this period that we go through the self-discovery process, trying to know who we actually are and who we will be in the coming future. It is during this period that we make some life-altering and extremely important decisions of life, some of which we have to live our lives with forever. Thus it is vital to make those decisions wisely, which is why some guiding force in our lives is crucial. Teengae years, through my experience, I have observed is the most exhilarating period of our lives!..atleast it has been so with me! It is while in this age that I have realised how interesting, adventurous and unpredicatble life can be. Life can throw some really unassumed surprises and sometimes really uglu ones too. These have taught me how to tackle life and overcome several hindrances and obstacles effectievely...ofcourse coz I am immensely sensitive, it hasn't been a cakewalk for me to handle everything alone, but it has definetley taught me to be patient and strong, the traits which I did not possess in my formative years. These have been inculcated in me in my teengae years by life!
Teenage years are truly an incredible experience because it is during this time we take the plunge into some really important things..education which matches our career goals, relationships with a partner which will last a lifetime, we also go throgh heartbreaks as well as incredible happiness and ecstacy dueto several reasons...(relationships being the prior focus!!! hahaha)... we come across so many different people during high school years and foster a warm bond called freindship with them, which makes our high school years truly rewarding and this is also the time when we prepare for College Education, the nerve-wracking application processess,...the excitement to meet new people, make new connections, foster some more warm bonds...make new frends...seek new exposure from the world where we live and so much more..
These are the years which carve us into future world citizens, which is why a responsible act is always encouraged from teenagers.
Thus all said and done....whether teenage years render heartbreaks or ecstacy...they are our character-moulding years....years which hold sheer significance to all....as it is during these years that we garner several experiences and everlasting memories that we cherish forever

CARING ABOUT FasHiOn AND pOP CulTuRE DOESN'T MAKE ME ANY LESS INTELLECTUAL

Hhhhhmmmmmnnn.........reading the titile of the blog..many are likely to be confused pondering over the question as to why I chose to blog about this....well....the reason being....today's modern age teenagers are transforming into people who seem to be immensely or rather i suppose, I should say...overtly fascinated by fashion trends...especially girls...that's right...GIRLS.....!!!!!

I am one such GIRL who I would say, is overtly fascinated by the world of Fashion....composed of tremendous glitter....glamour...excitement...and ofcourse....I am wide eyed to discover,explore and learn more about it. I yearn to know and learn more about it day-in-and-day-out!
I am also aware that, there are innumerable GIRLS out there who think the same as me...which is why I thought why not blog about this subject and voice my ideas pertaining to it on a global platform..!
I have often noticed, when I or any GIRL talks about what's latest happenings in the Fashion world...we are sure to raise many eye-brows!!...and leave many thunderstruck and jaw-dropped...assuming that we GIRLS are just plain wide-eyed babes who yearn to know and learn only about the Fashion world...and are least interested in something really really meaningful...thought-provoking and something which is worth pondering over.Many assume that such GIRLS aren't at all ambitious or career-oriented or attach crucial importance to education and being tremendously successful in their chosen fields....as stereotypes believe that, investing your time and energy into acquiring information about a new Louis Vuitton Speedy Bag or about the latest Hermes clutch that is acquiring its place of pride on the mantle in its showroom or browsing about the season's new hottest pair of Jimmy Choos or finding out who is the Next big Super-model is being unintelligent and not too useful.
But...the truth is CARING ABOUT FASHION AND POP CULTURE DOES NOT MAKE US ANY LESS INTELLECTUAL and our intellect isn't just limited to that. Just because we talk about Fashion and Pop Culture does not mean we lack knowledge in other arenas...we are only being 'OUT OF TE BOX' as we BELIEVE that a creative person should never remain in a neatly-labeled-box. We are definetly super-ambitious and Career-oriented and we are aware how pivoatal a role education plays in our lives as we know that the world is getting super-competitive and to survive and thrive in this highly competitive world where cut-throat competition is prevalent we have to carve our idebtity and be financially stable and super-successful and powerful, which is why good education is ofcourse highly critical.....but...at the same time...we dig our teeth into the irresistible Fashion world to attain info about the latest products which hit the shelves and also hit our NEXT-BIG BUY LIST!!!

So people.....please..it would be delightfully pleasing if you changed your stereotyped outlook towards GIRLS and try being out of the blues like us!!
The reason why I have typed the word 'girls' in capital throughout is to make everyone understand that we are more than just what we appear to be! There's a loooonggg way before you get to know the REAL us or should I say the REAL ME????
You keep pondering over this.....

Friday, July 3, 2009

Make The Environment Your Best Friend.

Environment. We are all very well-acquainted with the term, because we have come across it possibly innumerable times. But how often do we take it seriouusly? Do we actually consider and honour our responsibilities towards it? Do we treat our environment like a precious asset? Do we take care of it the same way how we look after ourselves? The answer unarguabely is 'NO'. Thus, its time we stop taking the environment for granted because it is our first home. Yes, it is our home because we live in it. Global Warming today is a very serious and important issue which needs to be addressed on an urgent-basis as if this is not done so, then the world, yes, you read that right, the WORLD will land up in a massive-trouble. Due to Global Warming the size of possibly all the water-bodies in the world will tremendouusly increase, which in-turn, would submerge all the countries located around these water-bodies. Besides, Global Warming would also contribute to giving rise to several deadly diseases, as diffrent diseases thrive better in warmer conditions. Apart from the above mentioned consequences, the phenomenon of Global Warming would also cause other severe and adverse effects on the environment and its citizens-Us. Therefore it's my kind and humble request to everyone out there to seriously take into account the safety of this environment and treat it with utmost love and request and most importantly to actievely adopt several measures to curb the phenomenon of Global Warming. I do not hope to sound preachy......my sole intention is to make the citizens of our environment aware about its significance and its crucial importance, by making everyone aware about its critical condition today. I seriously hope I have played my part of being a responsible and sensitive citizen of the environment by trying to create awareness about one of its pivotal issues.

Aditi Vivek Naik